Sunday, September 7, 2014
I Have New Website
Hello everyone. I have finally released my my book on voting titled:
AMERICAN WOMAN The Poll Dance: Women and Voting
and I also have a new site and will probably not be using this one anymore. Please hop on over to
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Sunday, July 21, 2013
Racism Sucks!
Her parents must have known something
because her name is Barbara Era Anderson.
She inspires me and gives me motivation
when I feel like we’ll never win the fight for the ERA.
She posted this on her Facebook page:
“Yesterday a young teenage
boy made a very racist remark to my teen son. This was not someone he had ever
met, but was a cousin to his best friend, aka "my little sister."
Unfortunately this is not the first time my son has had to endure racial
remarks. However, to hear it from the unknown cousin of someone he has held so
close to his heart, someone he has looked out for
and protected, someone he has fought hard for, was such a traumatic blow. My
son, enraged over the remark, was not very easily calmed. He did something rare
in that he shut me out completely, and also told me that because I was white, I
would never have this problem. He was angry angry angry that I am white and
that he is not. He told me there is no way that I could understand. He was
reduced to a non-person, shattered.
My heart broke for him. I cried in the other room.
It took a long time for him to calm down, and hours later he was still bothered. Finally we talked. I explained to him that I could not ever understand what he was going through, but that I had faced discrimination in my life, too. He knows what I do as far as women's advocacy, yet he never connected racism with gender discrimination. From his tear-streaked face, his body covered in sweat from anger, he listened to what it is like to hear women being put down through songs that he loves to rap to. I challenged him to find one song on his playlist that does not objectify women. Zero.
Then he said these couple of words "Being a woman is like being Asian, or Black, or Hispanic but ten times worse. That is so racist!" I reminded him that women come in every color, every shape, every size and that we are judged even by our names before anyone even knows one thing about us. He did get some comfort knowing that I too had faced discrimination, but more importantly, he gave me my computer back so I could continue to fight for women. "Being a woman is like being the worse race ever,” he said.
This is the reality I live in and that he lives in. At least he recognizes it. Feeling like a mom who has the best son in the world.”
My heart broke for him. I cried in the other room.
It took a long time for him to calm down, and hours later he was still bothered. Finally we talked. I explained to him that I could not ever understand what he was going through, but that I had faced discrimination in my life, too. He knows what I do as far as women's advocacy, yet he never connected racism with gender discrimination. From his tear-streaked face, his body covered in sweat from anger, he listened to what it is like to hear women being put down through songs that he loves to rap to. I challenged him to find one song on his playlist that does not objectify women. Zero.
Then he said these couple of words "Being a woman is like being Asian, or Black, or Hispanic but ten times worse. That is so racist!" I reminded him that women come in every color, every shape, every size and that we are judged even by our names before anyone even knows one thing about us. He did get some comfort knowing that I too had faced discrimination, but more importantly, he gave me my computer back so I could continue to fight for women. "Being a woman is like being the worse race ever,” he said.
This is the reality I live in and that he lives in. At least he recognizes it. Feeling like a mom who has the best son in the world.”
Friday, March 8, 2013
Diary of An Activist - Sometimes I Feel Like I'm Going Insane
I love being an author and an activist for women's rights. I
love writing. Sometimes I feel like I’m going insane.
In my twenties, I studied
acting. I pursued a career and was one of the fortunate ones. I landed a
national television show and worked on it for seven years. The show didn’t make
me a rich woman nor did it make me famous but it did make me feel really good.
I got to work on a very popular show that my mother watched when she was
pregnant with me, my grandmother watched and I started watching it when I was
nine.
After almost a decade of
studying acting, auditioning and doing all that one does while pursuing an
acting career, I tired of it. I no longer felt the same enthusiasm I once had.
When I look back, I can see that it wasn’t something I was born to do. I loved
it at the time and I was good at it but there was something missing. Another
actor once referred to himself as a “lifer” and I remember trying to convince
myself I was one. I am not. In 1999, I decided I didn’t want it anymore and
started a successful career in sales. The thought of sitting in another agents'
office, having the same conversation I had in every other agent's office made me
feel like I needed to take a nap. The idea of dealing with another photo-shoot
for headshots—that every casting director would criticize for the sake of
criticizing—was just too much for me to bear and I stopped trying to get work.
I continued to work on Days Of Our Lives but when that gig ended in
2002, so did my acting career. I never looked back.
Some of my many headshots....
Occasionally I would write
something funny. Maybe an inspired email or a funny detailed account of a
miserable vacation I had and I would share it with friends. They would always
tell me, “You should be a writer.” I thought, yeah, whatever, and I completely
ignored them.
In 2004, I set out to
collect stories from people about how they lost their virginity. I thought it
would make an interesting book for virgins and wasn’t sure if I could even get
enough stories. In 2010, my idea became a reality and I saw it come to life in
my first book, The Virgin Diaries. I honestly had no idea I would really
ever be an author until I became one. It opened up a whole new world for me.
The economy had tanked, my decade long career as a sales representative was not
looking great and I moved from Los Angeles to Northern California to start a
whole new chapter in my life, one that I never saw coming until I arrived in
late 2009.
It’s funny to me that I
avoided starting a blog. I was afraid of it. My first one was titled “What’s
All This Fuss About Masturbation?” It was about the wacky politician
Christine O’Donnell, and her idiotic statements about why people shouldn’t do
it. My dad got freaked out because I wrote about masturbation. But almost
everything I do freaks him out. Once I started blogging, I pretty much became
obsessed with it and as you can see, I am doing it right now!
Anywhoo, once again, life
handed me a surprise on April 5, 2012. I got an email from a woman by the name
of Susan, after I posted my Open Letter To Rush Limbaugh From A Liberal Slut
on her public Facebook wall. I had no idea this woman would not only change the
direction of my writing, but she changed the direction of my life. She founded Rock the Slut Vote and
really wanted me to be the spokeswoman. I remember being floored. I discussed
the idea with both of my parents and they were supportive and encouraged me to
do it. So I did. One of the greatest thrills of my life was the opportunity I
had to speak on the west lawn of the Capitol Building at the We Are Woman March
in Washington last summer. It was a little scary but FUN and the fact it’s on
my life’s resume makes me very proud.
I learned at the march, that
the Equal Rights Amendment was never fully ratified into the Constitution and I
also learned that 70% of women also don’t know this. When I found out, I
decided I needed to take action and I needed to make younger women aware of
this. I am in the process of writing a book for younger women on the importance
of voting and women’s rights. I may even add chunks of this little diary blog
to the book – ya’ never know.
When I moved to Northern
California in 2009, I had a modest savings. I had a modest savings. I no
longer have savings because I have dedicated my time and energy to a cause I
feel so passionate about. I can’t seem to drag myself away from it. I literally
fantasize about walking away from all of it. Sometimes the feeling is so
overwhelming, I literally lose my breath. What would my life be like if I went
back to having only one Facebook account with just my family and friends, no
Twitter accounts and no article writing? What if I just went back to selling
stuff for other people, taking in a bi-weekly paycheck—that would more than
likely be a fraction of what I made in a much better economy? I actually did
have a job selling stuff and was fired two days before Thanksgiving in 2012.
The economy played a huge part in me losing my job, as well as the fact that
the products I sold are three times more expensive than competitors. In
2005, I had worked for the same company in Los Angeles and was a top sales rep.
L.A. is a completely different market and audience than where I live now. Also,
while I was busy being a “Liberal Slut,” my employers were voting and promoting
Romney. Please note, I am not looking for pity. Just giving you the lo-down. I
ask myself if I’m crazy. Why do I choose to try and convince young women, who
feel there is no reason to be concerned about equality, that we have a huge war
being waged against our rights? Wouldn’t it just be easier to walk away? The
answer for me is no. It may be a daunting task and it may not turn out exactly
to be what I want it to be, but I am compelled to continue. I love it and hate
it at the same time. I hate that we are so divided, and I hate that this country
is such a mess. I hate that some young women don’t even realize what’s
happening, and I hate that there are women out there who actively fight against
equality. I love knowing that the work I do, as well as the efforts of other
passionate women working toward the same goal, will result in victory.
We will get the Equal Rights Amendment ratified into the Constitution. We will
fire the politicians who are hell-bent on eroding and stripping women of our
rights, and we will be louder and more effective than the anti—feminist women
who are lying to themselves and to the world about what feminism really is.
For as many emails and
tweets I get from people calling me a c*nt and say that I should be raped and
killed, or that I’m a baby killing whore, I get five times as many emails thanking
me for what I’m doing. Those emails always humble me and make me want to fight
harder. I will. I just felt the need to write all of this down because if I
went outside and started screaming, they might throw a big butterfly-net over
me and sedate me.
I am an activist for women’s
rights. I am a feminist and I am a lifer.
Thanks for reading my
rant/diary, and thank you Susan for helping me to be a strong and proud
activist.
ONWARD.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Monday, February 18, 2013
Ain't No Sunshine: 44 Year-Old Male Tells His Story Of Woe
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Male: 44
I grew up in a small town. I kept to myself and was very shy. In December of my senior year in high school, “the new girl” entered my school, my grade, my life. I will call her Jessica. She was nothing like the girls from where I lived. A mix of mostly hippie, a little punk rock and some Stevie Nicks. Every guy in school was fascinated with her. She had an air of confidence that we had never seen. She used profanity and smoked cigarettes. The other girls hated her on sight, in part because she was sexy and beautiful but mostly because she commanded all the attention. I was smitten along with every other guy in town.
For some reason I will never understand, Jessica quickly took an interest in me. We sat together in science class and were paired to do an assignment together. We got homework and I felt like I had won the lottery. But I was also petrified. I wanted her to like me but I was so dull in contrast to her wild and exciting ways. I felt it best to just keep quiet and let her handle everything; this way I could look cool.
We made arrangements to meet after school and I invited her to my home. Both of my parents worked and I longed to be alone with her. Not because I thought we would have sex (I was a virgin) but I figured being alone with her could lead to a real relationship—and it did. We became inseparable. My parents were not happy. Her parents loved me. I think they hoped I would calm her down. I let them down.
For a year and a half I celebrated and endured the most bizarre, upsetting, exciting, crazy and exhaustive relationship of my life. I let her take me over. She said “Jump” and I asked “For how long? How high? Would you like me to add a skip?” I was a complete doormat for her. I put off college, which infuriated my parents. I fell out of my small circle of friends. My life was all about Jessica. I thought I was happy but looking back, I think I was always on the verge of tears. She stirred me and I think I always knew our time would be fleeting. I was always desperate for her, even when we were together.
I lost my virginity with her. She was not a virgin. She would say all these crazy romantic things to me about our love and future. She would plan out our wedding, talk about the kids we would have, how we would travel and lead an exciting and unconventional life.
We had been together for over a year. That February she became pregnant. I was secretly elated when she told me. I thought to myself, THIS would be how I would have her forever. We would HAVE to get married now. I really believed for about five minutes that I had her locked in.
She told me she was going to have an abortion. I crumbled. Something inside of me knew right then and there that somehow she would be out of my life soon. It was awful. She had the abortion and afterward we cried together. She explained that even though we had discussed marriage and children, there was too much she wanted to do with her life. She wanted to travel, to live. I just sat back, listened to her and felt her slipping away.
In May she told me a group of friends invited her to stay the summer in France. She was supposed to come back in August. I argued with her; I pleaded with her not to go. I then offered to go with her. She told me that there wasn’t enough room for me and this would be a good way for us to miss each other. By the time of her return, our love would be new again. There was no winning with her (at least where I was concerned).
I will never forget the day I took her to the airport. She was so happy and excited. I was a complete disaster. I was angry at her for being so happy and feared I would never see her again, despite her promises to write often. Because we were so young and had little money, we couldn’t afford the long distance charges to speak on the phone.
I do not remember a darker day in my life than the day she left. I sat in the airport parking lot in my car for two hours and sobbed. I was weak and felt like I had no energy for anything. Even now, all these years later, writing this brings back the severe pain I was feeling. I am lucky I survived the drive home. I can barely even remember it. I was drunk with sadness.
I wrote to her and she replied twice. Her letters proved that she was having the time of her life. I feared she would meet someone else. I feared everything and was angry. I resented the fact that I was too young to go there and bring her home. Then the letters stopped. August came and went.
I visited her parents and when her mom opened the door, I could see the pity she had for me. She told me that Jessica was staying on and planning to live there. I was crushed and defeated.
I cried, I sobbed; I felt so sorry for myself. The pain was so intense for so long. I went through two years of torture, waiting for her to surprise me. I withdrew even further and had absolutely no social life. My parents were concerned and insisted I go to therapy.
The therapist did help me. She let me talk and cry but no one could take the pain away. That took years. She had me write down my goals, she tried to encourage me to date other girls but I couldn’t even think about anyone but Jessica. I was completely obsessed with her.
I can’t put a number on how long it took me to get over her. Writing this out and thinking deeply about it brings it all up for me again. I do not feel devastated now. The last time I saw her I was nineteen years old. But I remember the pain I felt. I can feel that pain this second. It took me at least two years to get to the point where I felt somewhat normal. It took three years before I went on a date.
Over the years I have looked for her online. I’ve looked on Facebook and haven’t found her. I admit to being curious but I think it would really be best if I never see or hear from her again. She had an unhealthy power over me. I’m not sure if she still would but I can sense that I might still be vulnerable. I am married now and quite content. My wife is more suited to me. We have a good life. I trust her and wouldn’t want to put her through anything negative because of Jessica.
Jessica not only broke my heart, she ripped it into shreds. She made me feel so insecure and in the end, walked away so easily that I questioned if she ever really loved me.
I thought I loved her. But I was obsessed with her, infatuated. It was a crazy sick attraction. I longed to be close to her but I never felt I “got in.” Therefore I felt like it was an unfair field. She was IN me. I was only about her and I think I was a part of her for a brief time until something else captured her attention.
Over the years I have wondered what I would say if I had the chance to see her again. I have thought to ask if she ever really loved me. Now I feel like it is best to let go. There is some weird grip she will always have. But not to the point where I feel pain. As I said, I love my wife and don’t wish to break that bond.
I do believe in soul mates. I think Jessica was one, is one, but not THE one. I am not sure why she came into my life. Maybe to help me appreciate my wife in a way I might never have. My wife is the soul mate I wish to spend my life with.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
WOMEN: What If This Happened To YOU?
Imagine this:
You post an article on Facebook about
the fact your state is at risk of losing the only clinic to provide abortions. In
your post, you express outrage and think it’s wrong. Your employer feels
differently. They call you into their office and
explain how your post is against their moral code and they fire you. You try to
defend your position and they simply don’t care. You’re fired. No more
paycheck. No more health benefits.
You’re angry. You can’t stop thinking about it, “They Have
NO RIGHT!!” You start researching and find you’re not alone. Other women who
worked for the same company have been fired because of content on their
personal Facebook pages.
You get an idea. You decide that you
will organize a group of women and you will gather on public property close to
where you used to work and peacefully protest.
Five of you gather and hold your signs. You’ve alerted
some radio stations and local TV media in the hopes they will pick up your
story. Within minutes, police show up and tell you that you must leave. You
argue that you are on public property and you are breaking no laws. Before you
even know what’s happening, you are all being arrested and taken away in handcuffs.
You are stripped of your clothing and treated like a
criminal. They throw you into a cold, dank cell and leave you with nothing but
your thoughts. You are angry. You are scared. You are raging and you cannot
BELIEVE the injustice! No one will listen to you and you haven’t even broken
the law. How can this be happening?
As a form of protest, you decide to go on a hunger strike.
Days pass, you haven’t eaten anything. Prison doctors put you in a straight
jacket and say you’re mentally ill. They restrain you and force a large, cold,
metal contraption in your mouth keeping it open, making your mouth bleed
and then they stick a long tube down your throat and into your stomach where
they pour raw eggs. They do this to you time and again until you vomit blood.
Does this seem extreme to you? Do you think it’s something
that would never happen? It DID happen to Alice Paul. In fact, worse things
happened to Alice. She didn’t post anything on her Facebook page because she
was not protesting about free speech, she was picketing President Woodrow
Wilson in 1917 so that women would have the right to vote. She broke no laws.
All she wanted was equality for women. Equality for you and for me.
She endured physical torture so you can vote today. In
1920, the nineteenth amendment was ratified into the Constitution and because
of Alice and her undying determination, women won the right to vote and it was
legally secured. There were many other women who fought with her and also
suffered greatly for your freedoms. Shouldn’t the right to vote be granted to
everyone?
Here’s the thing, people of all ages don’t vote. 94 million Americans didn't vote in 2012. They
don’t pay attention to what’s happening—and there is a lot happening these days
that threaten your rights as a woman. People complain their vote doesn’t count
for anything. It does. It IS important. If it wasn't important, why would some people try to keep other people from voting? I know it’s very easy to focus on the
things in your life that feel more interesting or take your immediate
attention, like school and friends and work. When I was in my twenties, I paid
ZERO attention to politics and I didn’t vote. I was even a registered
Republican because I didn’t know the difference between the two.
No one taught me about Women’s Suffrage. I didn’t learn
about it in school. EVER. Why? Why didn’t the schools I attended tell me about
this? This is important history. The incredible and heroic efforts women made
are by and large ignored. That’s a shame and it makes me sad. That is why I am
writing a book for young women. Voting is extremely important. Why else did men
(and some women) fight so hard to keep women from doing it? Think about that.
Think about this too: women are not equal in the Constitution. The Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) was
never passed. We were short three states. Thirty-eight states are needed to
ratify it. Only thirty-five did in 1972 and then it was dropped and a deadline was attached. It expired. Equality for women EXPIRED!
Don’t you think America should legally recognize women as equal in the Constitution? I do.
If you know ANY young women, please
send this blog to them. Make SURE they know about Alice Paul and Lucy Burns and
Women’s Suffrage. Please. There is a wonderful movie starring Hilary Swank
titled Iron Jawed Angels and it chronicles the efforts of Alice Paul and Lucy
Burns. Please watch it. It’s shocking and well done.
Vote in every election.
Vote in every election.
| Kimberley A. Johnson (BIO) – A.K.A. The Anti Coulter is the author of The Virgin Diaries and an activist for women’s rights. Like her on Facebook, Twitter or follow her on FB HERE. |
Friday, December 7, 2012
Buy A Book And We'll Donate To Lawrence O'Donnell's K.I.N.D. Fund
For every ARK Stories book
purchased between now and December 25, (paperback or Kindle edition), ARK Stories
will donate $1 to the K.I.N.D. Fund (Kids In Need Of Desks), established by
Lawrence O’Donnell and UNICEF. The video above is from 2011 and explains how
the program works. Lawrence reported on December 6, 2012, that K.I.N.D. has
received more than $4.6 million dollars in donations.
The
money donated to K.I.N.D. pays for the assembling of school desks in Malawi Africa. It
helps in two ways, by providing jobs and helping their local economy and by providing
desks for students to sit on instead of having to sit on a hard floor for the
entire day.
Visit ARK Stories to read samples of each book.
Or just use these links to go directly to the online venues.
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After
the holidays, we will post a picture of the check with the total
amount.
It’s a great way
to help those in need while you’re buying a great book.
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Wednesday, November 28, 2012
The Anti-Feminists
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| Susan Venker
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There
are a lot of women in America who are against feminism. They believe women
should act like women, and ‘be true to our feminine nature.’ If we fail to do this, men won’t marry us.
According to these women, we are destroying the country. Yeppers ladies, due to
the fact we believe we deserve equal pay and want to control when and if we get
pregnant, we are the in-house American terrorists.
Author Susan Venker accuses feminists—me— of having
sex at ‘Hello.’ She has never met me and for her to assume this about me, or an
entire group of women, is just completely ignorant and judgmental. Venker recently wrote an article for FOX
News titled The War On Men. She asserts that men have not changed much
over time but women have changed dramatically. She says women are angry,
defensive and that we’ve pushed men off their pedestal—now men have nowhere to
go.
Before women were able to earn enough money to
support ourselves and before we had the ability to choose if and when we become
mothers, we had very little choice. Before the sexual revolution, being a
divorced woman carried with it a very negative stigma—one where a woman was no
longer worth anything because her marital status labeled her as damaged goods.
Men dominated the work force and the jobs women worked, like secretaries and
waitresses, didn’t provide enough income for a divorced woman, especially one
with children, to live independently. So, if a woman was married to a man who
was physically or emotionally abusive, a man who was unfaithful, or to a man
she simply no longer wanted to be married to, her choices were so limited that
she was often forced stay with him.
When women stood up and demanded freedoms like the
right to vote, the right to earn as much as a man in the workplace and the
right to choose whether or not to be a mother at any given time, we were
labeled as angry and slutty. Because we could take a pill that prevented
pregnancy, we were all of a sudden labeled as being loose. A woman who likes sex is
a whore, a disgrace. This attitude is damaging enough when it comes from men but
when it comes from women, it takes on a completely different meaning. It always
reminds me of a battered woman who stays with her abuser because on some level
she feels she deserves it. Venker and women who share her negative views on
what women ‘should be’ are a danger because they help to keep all women from
real equality.
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| Phyllis Schlafly |
A perfect example of how these
dangerous women have influence is Phyllis Schlafly, a politically conservative
constitutional lawyer. Schafly opposed the ratifying of the Equal Rights
Amendment in the 1970s with a campaign —STOP ERA. STOP stood for Stop Taking
Our Privileges. One of the ‘gender
specific’ privileges she was trying to preserve was, ‘dependent wife.’ She was an outspoken opponent of feminism
and the ERA, and her efforts to stop women from being equal in the Constitution
proved successful.
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| Ann Coulter |
Ann Coulter is a completely different kind of anti-feminist. Her
messaging does not stem from the belief that all women should be obedient
trophy wives. Coulter is actually a strong, unmarried feminist with a
contradictory message. She is the author of books that are nasty, racist and
mean-spirited. She’s on record saying that women should not be allowed to vote.
The reason? If women didn’t vote, conservatives would always win.
Her sales approach is to go on news programs as a political pundit and
make incendiary comments as a way to draw attention to her hateful books. An
example is a recent guest appearance on Real Time With Bill Maher. Just
weeks before the election, she accused Maher’s entire, liberal audience of
being racist while promoting her latest book Mugged. If you are not
familiar with Coulter’s work, here is the description for Mugged "
“This isn’t a story about
black people—it’s a story about the Left’s agenda to patronize blacks and lie
to everyone else.”
For decades, the Left has been putting on a play with themselves as heroes in an ongoing civil rights movement—which they were mostly absent from at the time. Long after pervasive racial discrimination ended, they kept pretending America was being run by the Klan and that liberals were black America’s only protectors.
It took the O. J. Simpson verdict—the race-based acquittal of a spectacularly guilty black celebrity as blacks across America erupted in cheers—to shut down the white guilt bank.
But now, fewer than two decades later, our “postracial” president has returned us to the pre-OJ era of nonstop racial posturing. A half-black, half-white Democrat, not descended from American slaves, has brought racial unrest back with a whoop.
For decades, the Left has been putting on a play with themselves as heroes in an ongoing civil rights movement—which they were mostly absent from at the time. Long after pervasive racial discrimination ended, they kept pretending America was being run by the Klan and that liberals were black America’s only protectors.
It took the O. J. Simpson verdict—the race-based acquittal of a spectacularly guilty black celebrity as blacks across America erupted in cheers—to shut down the white guilt bank.
But now, fewer than two decades later, our “postracial” president has returned us to the pre-OJ era of nonstop racial posturing. A half-black, half-white Democrat, not descended from American slaves, has brought racial unrest back with a whoop.
Coulter knows how to cause
controversy and her loyal followers reward her handsomely and flock to buy her
books. They allow her to keep going and have a place on the national stage.
During Bill Clinton’s speech at the Democratic National Convention, she tweeted
“To get Bill Clinton to speak at the convention, Obama had to agree to
carry his bags.” She also tweeted “Clinton just
impregnated Sandra Fluke backstage.”
As you can see, Coulter herself comes off as angry and as long she has an audience, she has power and
influence.
In this past election season,
conservative women equated women’s rights with abortion. They criticized
liberal women with the asinine argument that we were voting with only our lady
parts and that all we wanted was free birth control. These women are liars and
an embarrassment to women everywhere.
I could go on and list many other women who stand in the way of equality
for women but that would be a book. It’s a matter of every woman
deciding what it is she wants for herself, her life, her children’s lives and then
voting accordingly.
Women can be strong and equal and also love men. I am
one of them. I don’t love all men and there are definitely some men I wish to
remove to remove from congress. Those men are against my equality and cast
votes to prevent it. I would rather elect a man or woman who will enact laws
and policies that enable equality for all.
Being a strong independent woman allows for freedom
to choose a mate based on desire, not necessity. The women who promote feminism
as an evil are negligent, irresponsible and are slowing down the process of
equality for all.
This is precisely why you need to vote – in every
election, including the ‘boring’ mid-term elections. People who didn’t vote in
the 2010 mid-term elections, helped to allow for the obstructionists to
dominate House of Representatives. This resulted in more than a thousand of pieces of anti-women legislation from January 2011 until today. Let’s not do it again.
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Monday, November 19, 2012
Deborah Sampson Posed As A Man To Fight In A War
Equality.
Human beings are made up of
all kinds of people who have all kinds of interests and desires. Sometimes the
law dictates that only one gender—usually male—or one race is permitted to
engage in a given activity or cause. These biases can and will be overcome when
someone finally has enough!
Take for example, Deborah Sampson. She wanted to be a soldier and fight during the American Revolutionary War. In 1778 women were not allowed to enlist in the military. Not surprising, considering the lengths she went through to fight, that she was against British rule. She joined the Continental Army. What is surprising is that she was not the only woman who fought. Sampson was among a small number of women who fought in that war.
She fought under the name of
Robert Shurtliff (her deceased brother’s first and middle name) and served
for seventeen months. Because she was 5’7 and considered a tall woman, it was
quite easy for her to convince people she was a man. She was teased by other
soldiers for not having to shave but clearly, she was able to fool the masses.
She was chosen for the Light Infantry Company of the 4th
Massachusetts Regiment under the command of Captain George Webb and the unit
was made up of fifty to sixty men.
During her first battle on July 3, 1782 outside of Tarrytown, New
York, she was wounded, receiving two musket balls in her thighs and a huge cut
on her forehead. For fear of being found out, she begged her fellow soldiers to
leave her to die. Despite her pleading, they refused to abandon her and took
her to the hospital. She was treated for her head wound but before doctors
attended to the musket balls, she left the hospital and removed one of the
balls from her thigh by herself with a penknife and sewing needle. Her leg
never fully healed because the second musket ball was lodged too deep into her
thigh for her to remove.
By April 1783, she was promoted and served as a waiter to General
John Paterson. Because of the promotion, she was afforded a better quality of
life. She ate better food, had shelter and encountered less danger.
Everyone assumed the war was over when the peace treaty
was signed, but on June 24, General Washington was ordered by the President of
Congress to send a fleet of soldiers to Philadelphia to “aid in squelching a
rebellion of several American officers.”
Just as this was happening, Sampson fell ill with a malignant fever. The
doctor who treated her removed her clothes and her secret was out. Fortunately,
he did not reveal the fact she was a woman posing as a man, in fact, he took
her to his home and treated her with the help of his wife and daughters.
When Sampson recovered, she returned to the army for a
brief time. In September of 1783, the Treaty of Paris was signed and peace was
assured. When the doctor who treated her asked her to deliver a note to General
John Paterson, she thought the cat was out of the bag—fortunately for her it
was not. Sampson was granted an honorable discharge by Henry Knox after a year
and a half of service, with a note with some words of advice and only enough money to pay for her trip home.
In January 1792, eight years later, her story became known only when she
petitioned for back pay. She petitioned
the Massachusetts State Legislature for the earnings withheld as a result of
her being a woman. With the help of her friend Paul Revere, her petition was approved and signed by Governor John
Hancock. The General Court of Massachusetts verified her service and wrote that
she "exhibited an extraordinary instance of female heroism by discharging
the duties of a faithful gallant soldier, and at the same time preserving the
virtue and chastity of her gender, unsuspected and unblemished.” She was
awarded 34 pounds—which was considered quite inadequate and ultimately resulted in Sampson giving
lectures for profit, discussing her wartime experiences.
Because of her extraordinary achievements and bravery, her
successful struggle for the American Revolutionary War pension bridged the
gender gap in asserting that all veterans who fought for their country were entitled
to compensation.
In Sharon, Massachusetts, a statue was erected in front of the
library honoring Sampson. Sharon also has Deborah Sampson Street, Deborah
Sampson Field and the Deborah Sampson House.
Excerpt from Women in the U.S. Army, coutersy of www.army.mil:
"...in February 1946, Army Chief of Staff Gen.
Dwight D. Eisenhower directed the preparation of legislation to make the
Women’s Army Corps a permanent part of the Army. Lt. Col. Mary Louise Milligan
(later Rasmuson) became a consultant/planner for the project. Col. Hallaren,
third director of the WAC, became the recognized leader in the fight for
passage of the legislation. In September 1947, the bill was combined with the
WAVES/Women Marines bill and a section to include women in the Air Force was
added. The bill was renamed the Women’s Armed Services Integration Act.
President Truman signed the bill into law on June 12, 1948.
In July 1948, the first enlisted women entered the
Regular Army and in December, the first WAC officers received Regular Army
appointments. Women could enlist from ages 18 to 35. Enlistment under age 21
required parental or guardian consent. Women were no longer sent to a TO unit
of 150 women, but received individual assignments. Enlistments in the Women’s
Army Corps, Regular Army, opened to civilians in September 1948, and on Oct. 4,
the Women’s Army Corps Training Center opened at Camp Lee, Va.”
I decided to share this story as an example. As women, we
have to fight harder for rights and freedoms. It is worth it. And it is
important to never forget what the women before us did so that we have choices,
rights and freedoms today.
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Friday, November 16, 2012
The Radium Girls - Profits Before People
Have you ever heard of the
Radium Girls?
Around 1917, women were
hired in radium factories to paint watch dials with glow-in-the-dark paint. The
paintbrushes would lose their shape after a few strokes, so employers
encouraged the women to re-shape the brushes with their mouths. For fun, the
women painted their fingernails and even their faces and teeth. Hey, it was
glow-in-the-dark and that’s FUN! The women believed the paint was safe.
Here’s the rub—the U.S.
Radium Corporation who hired these women were hip to the fact that radium is
not safe to ingest or to smear all over skin. In fact, the chemists carefully
avoided contact with the toxic substance, using lead screens, masks and tongs
to handle it. Literature on the injurious effects of radium had been
distributed throughout the medical community but this didn’t stop the factories
from hiring women and using them as expendable employees. These factories could
have easily provided the women with the necessary masks and gloves but they
didn’t. Masks, gloves and tongs would have cost the radium companies money.
They even encouraged the women to put the paintbrush tips in their
mouths—KNOWING the radium was toxic!
Was this a case of employers
wanting to make employees sick? Doubtful. It’s more likely they just wanted
product to sell. Glow-in-the-dark watches were used in the military and money
was to be made. So what if women got sick? It wasn’t their problem. Profit was
their bottom line.
Women DID get sick. Many
women later suffered from anemia, bone fractures and necrosis of the jaw—also
known as radium jaw. Radium and other
watch-dial companies denied the radium caused these ills. In an effort to keep
this information from the public, doctors, dentists and researchers complied
with requests from companies to not release the damning data. At the urging of
the radium companies, workers’ deaths were blamed on syphilis and other
sexually transmitted diseases in an effort to not only distract the public from
the poisoning but to smear the reputations of the women who died.
In
1922, Grace Fryer, a woman who once worked in the plant grew concerned when her teeth
started to loosen and eventually fall out. Her jaw became swollen and inflamed.
A primitive X-ray machine revealed serious bone decay and her jawbone was honeycombed
with small holes in a random pattern. The doctor suggested her condition was a
direct result of her exposure to radium.
Fryer decided to sue U.S. Radium but it took two years to find a lawyer
willing to take on the case. Five women who worked in the factory, dubbed "The
Radium Girls" joined the suit. Their case set precedents including a baseline of
provable suffering.
As mentioned in my last blog
about the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory, where women who worked under extreme
sweatshop conditions plunged to their deaths to escape an inferno, this
horrific and true story also resulted in labor laws and legal precedents. The Radium Girls case enabled the right of individual workers to sue for damages from corporations due to labor abuse. Industrial safety standards were demonstrably enhanced for many decades as a result.
I used to sell industrial
chemicals. The company I worked for often complained about the EPA and their
pesky rules—rules in place to keep the air and water clean. Their beef was
primarily about the fees associated with EPA testing of certain chemicals.
Companies who distribute these chemicals must cover part of the fees. This
chemical company would have gladly looked the other way so they could make more
money selling products that were damaging and unhealthy to the environment,
their own employees who had to demonstrate the chemicals and the maintenance
crews who handled the product—just so they would have a little more money in
their pocket.
Without labor laws and
unions, employers have proved that employee safety is not always a concern. We
know that every employer isn’t evil but enough of them have proved that labor
laws, regulation and worker safety are necessary in order to protect the rights
of employees.
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Thursday, November 15, 2012
These Women Had To DIE So YOU Can Have Better Working Conditions
Unions
have gotten a bad rap lately, especially by Republicans. The GOP has made union
a dirty word and while any organized group is open and vulnerable to
corruption, unions are there for a reason: To protect workers from poor working
conditions, unfair rules and making sure they receive fair wages. I’m about to
share a gruesome story that impacted union, safety and labor laws.
On
March 25, 1911, the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory in New York City caught fire
and 146 of the women who were working there under extreme sweatshop conditions
were killed.
Most
of the women who worked and died in the factory were Jewish and Italian
immigrants and were between the ages of sixteen to twenty-three. They endured
long hours—usually ten-hour days, six days a week. Workers earned approximately
$1 a day. The common practice of locking the doors and blocking stairwells in
order to prevent ‘pilferage and unauthorized breaks' resulted in a horrific
disaster when fire struck on the eighth floor just before quitting time.
A
cigarette was blamed for the fire, although there is some dispute. Smoking in
the factory was prohibited. When firefighters arrived, their ladder only
reached to the sixth floor. Women on the eighth, ninth and tenth floors jumped
to their deaths in order to avoid being burned alive. Others died of smoke
inhalation
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| Sidewalk after the fire |
From Wikipedia: “Terrified employees crowded onto the
single exterior fire escape, a flimsy and poorly anchored iron structure which
may have been broken before the fire. It soon twisted and collapsed from the
heat and overload, spilling about 20 victims nearly 100 feet to their deaths on
the concrete pavement below.”
Years
later, Louis Waldman who witnessed the scene, had this to say:
“One
Saturday afternoon in March of that year — March 25, to be precise — I was
sitting at one of the reading tables in the old Astor Library... It was a raw,
unpleasant day and the comfortable reading room seemed a delightful place to
spend the remaining few hours until the library closed. I was deeply engrossed
in my book when I became aware of fire engines racing past the building. By
this time I was sufficiently Americanized to be fascinated by the sound of fire
engines. Along with several others in the library, I ran out to see what was
happening, and followed crowds of people to the scene of the fire.
A few blocks away, the Asch Building at the corner of
Washington Place and Greene Street was ablaze. When we arrived at the scene,
the police had thrown up a cordon around the area and the firemen were
helplessly fighting the blaze. The eighth, ninth, and tenth stories of the
building were now an enormous roaring cornice of flames.
Word had spread through the East Side, by some magic of
terror, that the plant of the Triangle ShirtWaist Company was on fire and that
several hundred workers were trapped. Horrified and helpless, the crowds — I
among them — looked up at the burning building, saw girl after girl appear at
the reddened windows, pause for a terrified moment, and then leap to the
pavement below, to land as mangled, bloody pulp. This went on for what seemed a
ghastly eternity. Occasionally a girl who had hesitated too long was licked by
pursuing flames and, screaming with clothing and hair ablaze, plunged like a
living torch to the street. Life nets held by the firemen were torn by the
impact of the falling bodies.
The emotions of the crowd were indescribable. Women were
hysterical, scores fainted; men wept as, in paroxysms of frenzy, they hurled
themselves against the police lines.”
This
tragic disaster led to legislation requiring improved safety standards as well
as spurring the growth of The
International Ladies’ Garment Workers Union which fought for and resulted in
better working conditions for sweatshop and textile workers.
As
a teen in high school, I can’t remember learning about HERSTORY. I must have
learned something regarding women’s rights, the right to vote and suffrage, but
if I did, it’s long gone. This 2012 election brought the plight of women into
my focus and the more I learn about it, the more interested I am in spreading
the word. All the talk of rape, sluts and extreme abortion bans awoke the fire
and passion in my soul – and I don’t say that lightly – to help all women, and
especially young women, and the men who care about them, realize what the women
before us had to deal with in order for YOU to have rights. Forgetting this
will start the erosion of these rights. It already has. Just ask Rush Limbaugh
and Ann Coulter, Todd Akin, Richard Murdock, Michele Bachmann, Paul Ryan, Mitt
Romney and on and on and on…..
Women
plunged to their deaths because (male) employers didn’t want them to take a
break.
Remember
that.
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A similar fire that killed 112 employees at a Walmart supplier in
Bangladesh has prompted a workers-rights group to take action, calling on the
world's biggest retailer to improve its safety efforts.
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more about this on Wikipedia HERE
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Saturday, November 10, 2012
Why Liberal Media Won’t Stop Reporting On Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck And Ann Coulter
Recently, a colleague of mine at Addicting Info posted that
she is flattered her articles on people like Rush Limbaugh are keeping him in
the public eye. She wished she had that kind of magical power. As someone who
writes for a political blog, so do I but alas, it has nothing to do with us.
Every time I post or write about these people, I get at least
one person telling me I need to ignore them. I usually comment why I won’t and
am choosing to write this blog so I can just post it instead of constantly
having the same conversation about it.
Liberal media is not the reason any of these lunatics have a
voice. They have a loyal following. The right-wing electorate is their
audience. What’s worse is Republican politicians like Speaker of the House John
Boehner take cues from Rush Limbaugh.
FOX News also falls into this category. They lie and promote
hatred and racism. They have an audience of millions. As long as they have a
voice and influence, they NEED to be held accountable. Liberal media and
everyday people will not always (or even often) have the ability to change the
minds of their rabid followers, but we can help to educate those who are open
to truth. Fortunately there are more truth seekers out there than we give
credit to. They voted in 2008 and 2012 and made the difference.
These GOP pundits generate millions in revenue and the
politicians want and depend on that money. The beautiful irony is that after
BILLIONS of dollars failed to win this election, the GOP will be forced to
change their tactics or face extinction. Limbaugh, Coulter and the like will
always exist. They will never completely go away because there will always be
the fringe audience that needs to suckle from their teat. Always.
It won’t always be necessary for liberals to call them out.
When the GOP lays down to die and a new and improved party emerges—one that
does not allow lies and fear to dictate message and strategy—liberals will find
something else to focus on. It’s as simple as that.
Last, as a rational and critical thinker, I understand you are frustrated that hate mongers and the knuckle draggers get any attention. So am I!!!! I would prefer they go away too. You have the option of not reading the articles and paying them no mind. For those of us who report on the happenings in the world of politics, we will continue to stand up against the BS, call them out and hope that inch-by-inch, we can help to eliminate them from the public lexicon.
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